The Untold and Ugly Truths About Meeting Your Soulmate
10 Signs You've Met Your Soulmate, According To People Who Found It was like that song lyric, 'It is well with my soul,' something about him. When you meet someone and fall in love, it's not uncommon to feel out of sorts or like your whole How do you know you met your soulmate?. Your soul mates are the people who will be your mirror which you can see your naked self. The truth is, when you meet your soulmates, you will feel damaged.
His best friend was getting married and he needed a date. Internally, I heard my therapist encouraging me to live my life and take chances, so I agreed to go. The next morning I woke up regretting my decision, but when he called and left a message on my voicemail saying he just needed my last name and asking if I wanted chicken, beef or fish, destiny called and I was committed. I went, we hit it off, he kissed me and the rest is history — we were together on and off for over 10 years.
Intuitively, I knew he was the one. It was like I was attracted to his energy or his soul and not his body, which is a common feeling with soulmates. Your values are in total alignment. I fell deeply in love and knew I wanted to spend the rest of my life with my partner about two weeks into dating.
We were spending so much time together and the feeling I was experiencing was just indescribable. I called my best friend to tell her I found my life partner and she asked me if I was drunk I barely ever drink because of the way I was talking and how excited I was over the phone.
- 10 Signs You've Met Your Soulmate, According To People Who Found Theirs
- The Untold and Ugly Truths About Meeting Your Soulmate
We shared a flat with only the kitchen between us. We attended college together and in between classes, we were talking about a family member of his that had recently entered the hospital. You feel a kind of electricity when you touch. The different talents you each have come together and fulfill one another. The things you lack in are the things he excels in so you can learn from him and the things you are good in he may not know much about which means he can learn from you.
Between the two of you, together, you have everything you need to be truly happy. Everything suddenly makes more sense about the world and it truly feels like its meant to be. This is the way love is supposed to feel like and everything else is just fiction. Your soulmate is your best friend and your biggest fan.
They love you with their whole heart and soul and would gladly give up their life for yours.
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It is an unconditional sort of love. The kind where you know you can make mistakes and mess up but they will still be there for you always. Your soulmate doesn't play games or make you chase him. There is no room for such foolish things when it comes to a connection this strong and real. You never have to wonder your soulmate's feelings for you because they will let you know everyday and in every way possible. There is no lack of trust or communication in a soulmate connection.
Your soulmate cheers you on through life and is your biggest supporter. They help you become the best possible version of yourself and if you happen to fall they will pick you up and carry you.
They will fight your battles for you and defend you to the moon and back. Your soulmate is the definition of the best partner a person can have. So what's the difference between a soulmate and "the one"?
Well, I believe there's only one person that is truly meant for everyone and that is their soulmate. This is the only person who you will be the happiest with out of all of the other people on the planet. It doesn't mean that just because you don't find your soulmate that you can't be happy. I believe you can be happy with a lot of people. You could fall in love with someone and be truly content and happy with that person even if they're not your soulmate.
Sure, your connection may not be quite as strong as with a soulmate, but nonetheless you could still be in love. You would call this love "the one" because out of all your other relationships you chose this particular person to marry and have a family with. For you, this is your happily ever after and you stop searching for anyone else.
The truth is, you can't really know what a soulmate connection is unless you've felt it. It's not something that is easy to describe. But once you feel it you will know what I mean. It's a feeling that is unlike any other.
That's why I said before that sometimes it's better not to meet your soulmate if you can't be together because it is way too hard to move on from that, impossible in fact. If you do meet your soulmate, it's best to do whatever possible to end up together for good. This type of connection only happens once in a lifetime and you simply can't let it slip away because it will definitely not happen again. I think you can even know if you've met your soulmate from a photo you see of someone who seems extremely familiar to you.
If you see a person's photo and you just can't get them out of your mind because it's like you know them or recognize them and feel an undeniable connection, then it might be worth it to check it out and see if you can meet them in person because this could be the soulmate you've been waiting your whole life for. In this modern world of technology we live in, our soulmate could be just a click away!
I think when it's time for soulmates to meet and they are meant to be together nothing can truly stand in their way. Distance is never an obstacle.
Circumstances could never interfere. Other romantic interests could never stand a chance against a soulmate connection. It's like it was written in the stars. An example of a soulmate connection that I can think of is the movie The Notebook. I think this is about as close to a soulmate connection as you can see in the movies these days.
So why does a soulmate connection feel so familiar to you even if you've just met this person? I think it's because souls can recognize each other from other past lifetimes. Your mind may not remember it, but your soul does. When you meet your soulmate, you're feeling like you're finally coming home. It's like you've been away for awhile, but you're home now. Soulmates usually know each other in other lifetimes and have probably planned to meet in every lifetime, possibly even this one.
Your true soulmate is the same age as you within a year.
If you're female, and they're male they need to be older, even if it's just within a few days, but it's still within a year. So if my birthday is October 1,my soulmate's birthday would be within one year of that so anywhere from October 1, to September 30, works. The male needs to be older because it has to do with how God created Adam before Eve and so the woman is created from the rib of a man which means the man needs to be created first.
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So what happens if you meet your soulmate and it's just not meant to be and you don't end up together in this life? Well, that's a tough one. Like I said, it's better not to have met them than to have met them and had to part. You can't miss what you don't know but if you already know what a soulmate connection feels like then it's impossible to forget.
I don't think anyone really moves on from a soulmate connection. Sure, they can get married to someone else and seem to have their life in order but they will always remember what true love felt like with their soulmate. Losing your soulmate is like the one who got away times You will always compare every guy or girl you meet to your soulmate. You'll look for qualities in that person that you had in your soulmate. Sometimes, it even goes so far as looking for people who physically look like your soulmate that seem attractive to you simply because it's like a piece of your soulmate is in them.