Dear bother in Islam, thank you very much for having confidence in us, and we Muslims should have good relations with all people, males as well as I can say what you call friendship could have some percentage of leading intoharam. May 13, I knew a brother who left Islam for a girl, because when all else fails, this to get over that haram relationship, divided up into seven categories. Zina is undoubtedly haram; by extension, any relationship which involves then for them is half the punishment for free [unmarried] women.
Avoid talking to them in general, and definitely not without someone else present. Do it over email and keep it short, sweet, and not open ended by any interpretation. And ask them not to contact you.
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The sooner you do this the better. Control Your Emotions 5. Turn the Radio Off This is not a debate about the permissibility of music. Every song will be about you two.
Just lay off of it for a bit and give yourself some time off. Let other, more important things occupy your thoughts. Read a book instead. Realize that you never really loved them for the sake of Allah, no matter how much you thought you did or what MSA event you met them at. You need something that started on the right foundation. Fill That Void 8. Cry to Him if you want to. Do whatever you can to get closer to Him. Allah has an open door policy.
Do What You Love Do things that you actually enjoy doing. Play sports, go hiking, head to the driving range, watch a movie. Rekindle Your Relationship with Allah There is a fulfillment that you will never get from people that only the Most Merciful can fulfill. Know that He has always taken care of you when you had nowhere else to turn to. Ask for His forgiveness and put your trust in Him. He will not neglect you. So know that Allah is the best of planners.
And ask that He grant you someone who will bring you closer to Him and make you happy. Just live your life so that you deserve it. After the Prophet died, Ibn Abbas [ra] was said to increase in fasting and prayer.
Follow up with something good. Pray at night while others are sleeping. Fast some extra days. Just be thankful that Allah saved you from something that could have gotten worse.
He is the Most Forgiving, the Most Merciful. Stop Dreaming about Marriage People spend way too much of their youth thinking about marriage. Your whole life, and especially your youth, is not about you being attached to someone else.
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As the Prophet said: Take Time to Evaluate Evaluate what really makes sense in your life with regards to marriage. Is it really the right time for you? If not, is that time soon?
Get the advice of good, righteous, and knowledgeable people to help evaluate. Use this time to develop your relationship with your parents. Get their take on things as well and talk to them about how you feel. Know that This Too Shall Pass One of my teachers once told me that all things in life start small and grow, except for the calamity, which starts big and only becomes smaller.
And know that leaving what is haram will only make your marriage stronger when you do find the right one by the grace of Allah. During the slaughtering process, Allah's name should be recited, by saying " Bismillah " in order to take the animal's life to meet the lawful need of food.
There are a number of Quranic verses regarding the prohibition of meat in Islam: He hath forbidden you only carrion, and blood, and swineflesh, and that which has been immolated to the name of any other than God. But he who is driven by necessity, neither craving nor transgressing, it is no sin for him. God is Forgiving, Merciful. Khamr is the Arabic word for alcoholic drinks that cause intoxication.
The Prophet also forbade the trading of these intoxicants, even with non-Muslims.
It is not permissible for a Muslim to import or export alcoholic beverages, or to work in or own a place that sells these intoxicants. Regarding foods vanilla extract and gelatin are also forbidden either due to being an intoxicant themselves, containing certain percentages of alcohol or other forbidden items such as pig parts.
There are also a number of hadith regarding the prohibition of meat and intoxicants in Islam: In an incident narrated by Rafi ibn Khadij, Muhammad told Muslims who wanted to slaughter some animals using reeds, Use whatever causes blood to flow, and eat the animals if the Name of Allah has been mentioned on slaughtering them Whoever this verse reaches while they still possess any of it, they are not to drink nor to sell.
Zina is considered to lead to confusion of lineage, leniency in morals, the disconnection among families, and unstable relationships.
And come not near unto adultery. It is also forbidden for a Muslim man to propose to a woman who is engaged to another man. Muslims do not believe in giving women to the hands of those who do not practice Islam and having them responsible over Muslim women because they are not concerned with protecting the rites of the religion. This also involves threatening a spouse if they do not do something, then they will be divorced.
Business ethics[ edit ] Ribaany excessive addition over and above the principal, such as usury and interest, is prohibited in Islam in all forms. Interest goes against the Islamic pillar of Zakat which allows wealth to flow from the rich to the poor. Riba is prohibited because it keeps wealth in the hands of the wealthy and keeps it away from the poor.
It is also believed that riba makes a man selfish and greedy. Therefore, all forms of deceit and dishonesty in business are prohibited in Islam. O ye who believe! Devour not usury, doubling and quadrupling the sum lent.
Observe your duty to Allah, that ye may be successful. Allah loveth not the impious and guilty — Inheritances[ edit ] It is considered haram for a father to deprive his children of an inheritance. It is also haram for a father to deprive the females or the children of a wife who is not favorable to him an inheritance. Additionally, it is haram for one relative to deprive another relative of his inheritance through tricks.
The prohibition of these adornments is part of a broader Islamic principle of avoiding luxurious lifestyles.
Additionally, Islam prohibits excess beautifying that involves the altering of one's physical appearance. Physical alterations that are considered haram are tattoos and shortening of teeth.